FetishBound - A Statement

When we first started FetishBound in November 2009 we had no idea that over 12 years later we would still be going. It’s been an incredible journey and one that many said would never be possible. Everything was against us we were told, the venue, having a dress code, hell even being run by me was a problem to many.

I have never been a part of the “scene”, However, that has allowed me total freedom to do things my way and that has been the cornerstone of FetishBound and why it carries my name.

During that time Paul has remained at my side as both my greatest supporter, and when needed, my biggest critic. In this time we have gone from being boyfriends to celebrating our tenth wedding anniversary in just a few weeks.

It would be very remiss of me to not mention the support of the whole TEU family both past and present as it evolved over this time too.

However, over the last three years I have lost both my parents to cancer and our world has changed and evolved giving Paul and I more freedom.

This Christmas we had another wake up call to make the most of life when we lost Steve to a sudden and massive heart attack from which he never recovered and which has left a huge hole in the TEU family and in all our hearts.

Add to all this the introduction of the ULEZ, Paul no longer having a job in London and the fact that while I was in my 40’s when we started and I am now approaching 60, I am sure you will all understand where this has to lead.

I feel passing FetishBound on to someone else to run would not work. It needs to end and be replaced with something fresh and different. No one should be contained by my thoughts and ideas, which is why when Terry approached us to run a similar club in Manchester we gave him our blessing and support but not the name - he runs his own version of FetishBound called MancsBound, very much his take on the FB Idea, as it should be.

Therefore, with some sadness, for both Paul and I, I feel it is now time for me to step back and concentrate on the TEU Family and indeed my husband as we enter a new chapter in our lives as I approach retirement.

I must therefore announce that the February 2022 evening on 11th will be the final event.

Finally I must thank each and every person who has attended Fetishbound over the many many events we have held.

Thank You


Welcome To FetishBound!!

This is a Bondage Fetish Event For Men Only.

There is a Dress Code but its not all leather and rubber - there is so much more on the list that you will be able to easily meet it, like full team sports kit, uniforms and so much more. It's not all about rope either - chains, restraints, sleepsacks, straitjackets and much more.

The aim is to create a small friendly no attitude play space to meet play and socialise in, for all levels from the new to the experienced.

If you want to play you just need to ask, but equally you can just watch what others are doing with no pressure.

We do play music, but it is a background - after all if you are tied up you want the top to be able to hear you through the gag when you have a problem! Equally lighting is kept to a level where you can see what you are doing! No dark rooms here.

We are find a lot of people come early, have a drink and socialise so that within the first hour play list are sorted... if you come late you might miss out...

Why meet in a pub or a coffee shop when you can meet here in a friendly and open setting!

Get your gear ready (check the dress code)..... Get your ropes and restraints ready....


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How It Works:

We are finding more and more that guys come early, socialise and unwind with a drink. Around the end of the first hour or so a lot of guys have decided who they are going to play with and what's going to happen. Unfortunately it means that if you can't get there early it can be hard to find a play partner, but not impossible.


FetishBound is independently run
FetishBound has no connection to any other event or website (other than the family site).

IMPORTANT NOTE - You are strongly advised to read the House Rules and Dress Code to avoid any disappointment. It is a condition of entry that you accept the House Rules and comply with the Dress Code. Each month we turn away several people, some who have travelled some distance to be with us.